I'm sorry, but I can't hang out with you until fix yourself

There are certain types of people who I just refuse to deal with. With friends, it's a girl who will let a guy change her. A girl who will let her world revolve around some guy who isn't even treating her right. You either jump in and play the game... or if you're not up for it... then let him go and find a man who won't play games with you like that. Stand up for yourself and make a decision, but do not let him affect your mood or change how you interact with your friends. As a friend, I'll only put up with this for so long. Otherwise, I'll just see you later... when you're done letting yourself get tortured and pulled around like this. Please, women have fought a long fight and continue to fight to gain equal rights with men and you're letting one treat you like this and make you feel this way? I'm embarrassed. I value my independence.

And my response to the male side? Man up. This ain't middle school. Why are you playing games and hiding like this? This is your game? Okay, that's fine. But until you grow up and act your age, don't expect me to hang out or go grab lunch with you. You both are driving me nuts. Some people say this is cute, but... c'mon...okay, it was cute like 5 months ago.

I expect someone to read this who I didn't realize reads my blog and I'm going to get myself into hella trouble with some friends. And I don't really care. If you can still talk to me after this, great. If not then... eh ok... We'll see if I take my words back and delete this tomorrow. HAHAHAHAHAH.

edit: With all this said I guess I have to make some changes too. I'll try to see it through your point of view and take into consideration how you were raised, the experiences you were exposed to or not yet have been exposed to, ect ect...